I had the privilege of being part of several of my sister’s live
births. I have to say my sister is a trooper; she had her first three children
without any type of pain killers including any epidurals and two these three
babies came into the world weighing in more than 9 pounds. I can still recall
the event; the center was a maternity center where there were midwives. My
sister was in labor for three hours, when she began to crown. She was given the
choice of deciding which position to give birth so she decided to have the baby
in a squatting position, which alleviated the contractions and did not work
again gravity. I can still remember the midwives encouraging her and guiding
her along as she began pushing, and the baby beginning to appear through the
birthing canal, I was apprehensive and thought maybe the midwives might become
careless miss and let the baby fall, but thanks to their expertise that did not
occur. It was the first natural, and not to mention horizontal birth I had been
present at. I have to admit that it was the most amazing and wonderful event I
had ever witnessed. Having been one of the firsts to see the baby arrive into
the world was breathless, being able to hold her within seconds of her arrival,
priceless. I have chosen this example because of the birthing method my sister
chose to embrace. This method did not include drugs, the center was dedicated
to only women and the main focus was the mother and her baby. The midwives were phenomenal to say the least,
their knowledge and expertise superseded anything I could say or imagine. The
other important fact about this experience was the setting of the room, which
was recreated to resemble a family’s bedroom instead of a hospital room, and
family members from both sides were welcomed to be a part of the wonderful
event. It was as I mention earlier the greatest and most amazing event I have
ever had the privilege of being a part of. I believe that giving birth is just
a minute part of child development. The development of a child truly begins the
second that mother learns that she is with child, not after the child is born.
She should begin with a proper nutrition and care of her physical and mental
health as well. Limiting exposure to any harmful elements that may affect the
growing baby within her is of utmost importance.
The country of the world I have chosen to share about is Spain. I
was drawn to this particular country because of the choices given to mothers to
give birth, either private or at a public clinic. I thought it is interesting
how we have choices in America, but with different outcomes. In Spain for
instance if the mother decides to have a baby in a “private hospital” while she
will be entitled to stay in a private bedroom; the hospital may not have state of the art
equipment in the event that something should go wrong. In which case the baby
will be transported to a public clinic or hospital where the state of the art
equipment can be found no matter how run down the hospital maybe. Another
interesting fact about Spain’s labor room’s staff is that if the mother is
having trouble during delivery, there is always the possibility that one of the
attending medical staff members all in the name of “trying” to speed up the
birth might just decide to throw themselves on the mother’s stomach, in order
to speed up the delivery. Another interesting fact I learned while conducting
this research is that if you request an epidural there is a chance you may not
get one, and if you do receive pain medication you may not know what type of
pain medication it is, which is why many expectant mothers decide to deliver
naturally. However, I have learned that
the Spaniards do expect fathers to hang around the hospital as long as the
mother is there, which can be anywhere from 1 to 3, and in some instances even
4 days. The family is given all the documents needed to provide proper care for
the baby, and his mother before the family leaves the hospital. The baby is
seen by the doctor within two weeks after birth, and parents are advised that
if any emergency should arise they should seek immediate attention a public
hospital’s emergency room. Learning about Spain has made me truly appreciate
the American way of labor and delivery a great deal more.
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Hi Magda,
ReplyDeleteI have learned a lot from your post both from your sister's experience as well as the country that you have researched. Indeed it was very informative and showed a lot of reflection.
Hi Victoria, i noticed you stated that you have had the privilege of seeing your sisters give birth to their children. I read that you enjoyed it despite the pain they were going through.Do you want chidlren of your own? I can remember when my sister had her daughter.It was surprising because she denied being pregnant and gave birth at home without any pain medicaiton. Our fatehr delivered the baby. That was amazing.
ReplyDeleteIn regards to birth in spain. I liked the fact that the custom is for the fathers to be around the motehrs during the birthof their child. However I to am glad to be in America where we have good medical care and medical rules and regulations
Hello Magda
ReplyDeleteWOW. What an experience. I witness my sister four births but neither was as interesting as your sister's birth. I am sure that was a memory you will never forget. But there is nothing like sharing something so special with a sister. My sister did not share my first birth experience, but she was with me for the second one. We also shared a kidney transplant together, her being my donor. So these are precious moments to always cherish. Nice post!!
Hi Mayda,
ReplyDeleteYou have had quit the experience. I was there with my niece when she had her baby through the labor, the deliveries I leave to everybody else. But I am glad that I am in America and that when I deliverd my son he was able to get the neccessary care he needed.